Take your cue from the meeting.
This guide focuses on formal first meetings. Practices vary by organization and person.
A little guide to first impressions
See each gesture, then explore 12 practical situations: client visits, meals, missing cards, digital exchanges and follow-up.
Where are you meeting?
In a formal first meeting, use both hands as a sign of respect.
THE ESSENTIAL
Have a clean card ready and introduce your name and organization. In a formal setting, stand if you can and greet the person.
Hello, I’m Minseo Kim.
Keep your cards easy to reach.
From a first visit to your follow-up. Open a situation for practical steps and words you can use.
Client visits, introductions and interviews
Checking in at reception and introducing yourself to your meeting partner are different moments. Establish who you are there to see, then have your card ready for the person you will be speaking with.
In a Korean meeting
In a formal Korean introduction, offer the card with both hands and acknowledge the name and title on the card you receive.
You could say
Hello, I’m Minseo Kim. I’ll be walking you through the product today.
Keep in mindIf reception requests a card, you can ask whether it is for the visitor record. Distinguish a check-in procedure from a personal networking exchange.
You may enter a room without knowing who leads the meeting. Listen to introductions and connect names with roles rather than guessing seniority from appearance or age.
In a Korean meeting
Titles and forms of address vary across Korean organizations. Use the card and self-introduction as clues, and ask when uncertain.
You could say
How would you prefer me to address you?
Keep in mindThe order in which you receive cards is not a ranking of people’s importance. If you miss an introduction, ask for the name again and return your attention to the conversation.
Contact information helps you follow the next steps you were given. It is not an invitation to repeatedly contact a recruiter. Students and job seekers can introduce themselves without a printed business card.
In a Korean meeting
If you do not have a job title, use accurate information about your studies or interests. Receiving contact details does not replace the employer’s recruiting process.
You could say
Should I use the recruiting email address if I have a follow-up question?
Keep in mindAvoid requesting a private number or using a card to press for a hiring decision. Check the stated timeline and inquiry process first.
Conferences, meals and multilingual meetings
At a busy event, a name alone may be hard to remember later. The useful connection is the conversation attached to the card, rather than the number of cards collected.
In a Korean meeting
Use the formal exchange as a reference, but in a crowded Korean booth prioritize a brief, careful handover.
You could say
I’d like to learn more about the material you mentioned. Could we exchange cards?
Keep in mindAvoid turning a speaker’s question line into a long sales pitch. If they do not share contact details, look for public slides or an official inquiry channel.
First distinguish a business meal from a purely social gathering. While someone is eating, they may have neither a free hand nor a clean place to put a card.
In a Korean meeting
You do not need to reproduce a Korean meeting-table arrangement at a dining table. After acknowledging the introduction, choose a clean way to store the card.
You could say
Would it be all right to exchange contact details after the meal?
Keep in mindAvoid making someone put down cutlery or move food to accept your card. If the moment is awkward, wait.
The language on a card and the person’s preferred name are different things. An English-language card does not require an English name, and an unfamiliar name is not a reason to invent a nickname.
In a Korean meeting
Korean-English cards can help in a Korean meeting with overseas visitors. Add one sentence about your responsibilities if a translated title is unclear.
You could say
I’d like to say your name correctly. Could you tell me how to pronounce it?
Keep in mindAvoid jokes about a name being difficult or suggestions to change it. A private pronunciation note can help you remember it next time.
Missing cards, full hands and small mistakes
You do not need to keep searching your bag to hide the fact that you have no cards. Briefly explain and offer one convenient alternative.
In a Korean meeting
Keep the same courtesy in a Korean introduction when offering an alternative. Have an option that does not require the recipient to install a new app.
You could say
I’m sorry, I’ve run out of cards today. May I email you my contact details?
Keep in mindDo not pass off a colleague’s card as your own or forget an offer to send details. If the person declines an exchange, thank them and move on.
A folder, bag or drink can make a handover awkward. Pausing to create space is more useful than forcing a particular movement.
In a Korean meeting
Using both hands is a general sign of formality, not a test of physical ability. Prioritize comfort and safety around injuries, disabilities or mobility aids.
You could say
One moment, please. Let me put these papers down first.
Keep in mindDo not reposition someone’s hands or comment on an inability to bend or stand. An exchange that works for both people is enough.
After a small mistake, resolve the inconvenience and return to the conversation rather than reenacting the entire exchange. A brief apology and a clear correction are often enough.
In a Korean meeting
If you use the wrong Korean title, check the card and introduction again. Accuracy is more helpful than guessing a more senior title.
You could say
I used the wrong name. I’m sorry, Minseo Kim. Please go on.
Keep in mindAvoid rubbing a card vigorously against your clothing or repeating the same apology. Focus on how you treat the person after the mistake.
Notes, digital contacts and following through
What you want to remember is often the context of the conversation rather than the name alone. Separating what to record from when to record it helps you respect both the card and the conversation.
In a Korean meeting
Some Korean business guidance allows notes on the back of a card. Rather than treating it as always forbidden, consider formality and preference; use a separate notebook if unsure.
You could say
May I note the name of that resource so I don’t forget it?
Keep in mindAvoid recording judgments about appearance or sensitive personal conversation. Keep contact details out of shared screens and public documents.
A digital exchange is only useful if the other person can read and save your details. Do not assume identical apps or devices; keep a simple alternative ready.
In a Korean meeting
A digital card need not replace acknowledging names and roles in a Korean introduction. Briefly explain what you do while showing your contact details.
You could say
Would a digital card work for you? I can also send my details by email.
Keep in mindDo not treat scanning or saving a card as a request for advertising. Check that other people’s contact details or private notifications are not visible on your screen.
The other person may have met many people that day. A useful first message reminds them where you met and what you agreed, rather than becoming a long introduction all over again.
In a Korean meeting
Use the form of address you confirmed and state the meeting context. Sending what you actually promised is more useful than a generic promotional introduction.
You could say
This is Minseo Kim from today’s product meeting. Here is the comparison I promised. Please let me know if any item needs clarification.
Keep in mindAvoid daily reminders or repeating the same message across several channels. Keep a contact exchange separate from a newsletter subscription.
This guide focuses on formal first meetings. Practices vary by organization and person.
Recognizing the person matters more than following a gesture perfectly.
If you are standing or there is no table, read the card and keep it safely in your card case.
Every step is also available as text.
Have a clean card ready and introduce your name and organization. In a formal setting, stand if you can and greet the person.
Keep your cards easy to reach.
Hold the edges with both hands and offer the card so the other person can read it. Keep your fingers clear of the name and contact details.
Orient the text for the recipient, not yourself.
Receive it with both hands when practical. Take a moment to read the name and title before putting it away.
It is fine to politely check how to pronounce a name.
During a seated meeting, you can place the card neatly on the table. Remember to collect it and put it in your card case afterward.
Without a table, read the card and put it safely away.
If you both offer a card, there is no need to rush. Notice where the other person’s hands are and coordinate the exchange.
If the movement feels awkward, exchange cards one at a time.
If you are unsure, lower your own card briefly and receive theirs first. A careful exchange is more useful than forcing a particular hand sequence.
The animation shows a sequential alternative for an awkward simultaneous exchange.
Keep the received card safe, then offer yours facing the recipient. Use both hands when practical in a formal meeting.
You do not have to do every movement at once.
After the exchange, read their name and title and continue the conversation. Respect for the person matters more than the choreography.
There is no need to memorize one universal simultaneous-exchange routine.
Follow the host’s or your colleague’s introductions. If the order is unclear, wait for guidance or ask politely.
Introduction order can vary between organizations.
Introduce yourself to each person and offer a card individually, with the text facing them.
Hand cards individually rather than sliding or scattering them across a table.
Read each name and title as you receive the card. Focus on the person you are greeting rather than collecting the whole stack.
Ask politely if you are unsure how to address someone.
If table space allows, place cards in seating order to help remember names. Collect every card before leaving.
Seating order is a memory aid, not a compulsory rule.
After reading the card and greeting the person, place it in a clear space in front of you, with the text facing you.
Choose a visible spot; the left or right side is not a universal rule.
With several cards, arrange them in the order people sit as seen from your seat. This helps you connect each face with a name.
This is a memory aid, not a required ranking or card-case arrangement.
Keep cards clear of papers, your phone and drinks. Avoid bending or fidgeting with them, and use a separate notebook for your notes.
The notebook and cup positions illustrate safe placement, not a formal layout rule.
As the meeting ends, thank everyone and put the cards in your case. Check the table before you leave.
If you are standing or there is no table, read the card and store it safely.
Guidance for common business situations. Practices vary by organization and individual. The sequential exchange is a practical alternative suggested by this guide, not a universal rule.
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